The Pros and Cons of unkempt appearance
- October 18, 2022
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I don’t know about you, but I can easily get to the point where I need to be cleaned and dressed to show up at a party with a clean face. This can be a problem for some, or it can be an effective way to keep your self-esteem up. While the former is certainly true for me, I can’t say I have ever experienced the latter, and I don’t think it is possible.
The point is that you can have an “appearance” that makes you more attractive to men. I understand not having a lot of confidence in yourself and being uncomfortable with your appearance, but there is more to it than that.
I remember in junior high school, one of my friends would have to stand in front of a mirror for hours to get his hair cut, and it would be the first thing to go. I think it was because he was a nerd, but there was also a bit of an effect on him of being less attractive.
This is something that we all need to work at. We all need to get out there and try to be more confident. In a way, being more confident is a kind of “self-awareness” that we’ve all tried to acquire in the past.
Maybe you’re not as confident as you think, maybe you feel more awkward and self-conscious. This is the thing about confidence that we all really need to work on. It seems to be a bit of a double-edged sword. Whereas confidence is a positive and affirms who you are as an individual, there can also be a kind of insecurity that comes along with being confident.
This is a double-edged sword because confidence can also come along with an unhealthy amount of self-consciousness, which can be quite debilitating. It can make you not care about yourself as you should, or it can make you care too much about the person youre trying to impress. As a general rule, people who don’t think theyre confident are more likely to be afraid theyre not able to perform at a high level.
There’s a difference between being insecure and being unkempt. In a healthy sense, unkemptness is just a part of being confident. We like to feel self-confident and confident, so we don’t feel like we have to cover up our freckles and we don’t like to hide our freckles. On the flipside, people who are unkempt are often insecure and don’t feel confident in the first place.
If you have freckles, its important to remember that freckles are only noticeable when they’re close to your face. The freckles you have in your hair and on your face aren’t noticeable because you’re not standing next to them. In the future I will write a post about the importance of covering up and what it means when you get freckles that are covered up.
The freckles that we have are all over our body, but not in such a way that it is noticeable. They are all scattered throughout our bodies. In fact, we have so many freckles that it is almost like a game of “hide and go seek”.
This is the beauty of freckles.